ABOUT SPACE FOR LOVE
Intimacy, Connection & Love....Sounds good right? What if you had the power to create these experiences instead of waiting for them to happen?
That yummy feeling when you receive a great hug, a smile from a baby, a cuddle with a pet, or walk through a majestic forest.. That feeling is LOVE, true LOVE. It's the stuff we crave more than anything. We search for it in our families, with our friends, in romantic connections, from the world. In our own ways we are all seeking to be LOVED.
We forget how to access it in ourselves, or rather we're never really taught. So we are continunously seeking it out there somewhere in the form of people, sex, food, drugs n' alcohol, and shopping. When what we really crave is to be seen and heard, to be appreciated and acknowledged, cherished, we want approval, recognition… We want to feel good!
However something gets in the way of us allowing ourselves to fully love and be loved. That something is the way we have learned to ‘protect' ourselves from being hurt.
I believe relationship is our greatest teacher in this life. When we bump up against ‘another’, its easier for us to see ourselves. Although what we usually see first are all the ways the other person or thing is wrong, insensitive, and doesn’t know how to meet our needs. Where we are challenged in relationship, is where we will find the answers to ways we are creating separation or connection. Most of the ways we do this are unconscious. They evolved in our childhood to protect ourselves, and get our needs met. But with the help of a good teacher or guide, we can discover the pockets of tension, and the sneaky habits, that keep us stuck in relationship patterns that don’t serve us.
I’ve found that the most effective way to transform these patterns, is by going to where they live in the body. There is a reason we haven’t touched certain spaces inside of us that can be scary and overwhelming. Intensity whether it is great pleasure or great pain, requires a certain amount of strength and courage. But you can't heal, what you can't feel, emotions need a safe space to be met and felt in order to transform.
Tantra provides a safe path for liberating energies in our bodies that we have had locked down in the name of staying safe. When we can trust the movement of energy in our bodies without needing to protect ourselves, a new way of being becomes possible and old patterns can be released and transformed.
Our potential for orgasm, love, and intimacy are directly tied to how we relate to our bodies and each other. We have lost touch with really knowing and feeling that our bodies are miracles. What they do and are capable of is beyond amazing! Space For Love is a home for people ready to remember what’s possible when we embrace the totality of our being. Through blogs, private coaching, classes, workshops, and other projects there are lots of opportunities to explore a new capacity for love.